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T O P I C R E V I E Wblugrey.PlutoSquaredWait 6 months.blugrey.raspberriDo what's best for you. Let him soak it in. NickiGit really all depends on the other person...one of my exes i'm still really good friends with while others i cant stand to be in the same room with------------------put your foot down once, not stomp it over and overPlutoSquaredBlugrey,I'd wait until you're either not concerned about his welfare so much, or your residual feelings are gone...But, if you're really feeling the itch to move on... then, do what you want...I thought you guys had just broken up.raspberriLife is too short. blugrey.DianaIs this the ex who's friends with the guy you like? If so, my advice on what I wrote is totally correct, but I'd have told you no way if I knew you had a kid together, especially if he's a scorpio. He will not allow it. blugrey.blonderiverkatI have 3 scorpio exes...all 3 were serious relationships...I have dated a couple more of them, and have several male Scorpio friends. I attract Scorpio men like flies!lol I always wondered why, until I started studying astrology just recently. My Venus is in Scorpio, as well as my Neptune. My experiences were not good...they are very possessive, and oh so CONTROLLING...I swore them off. There is something about them though that obviously attracted me. My bf now, the love of my life, is a Libra like me...AND he also has his Venus and Neptune in Scorp, as well as his ASC...just enough Scorp for me, it balances out perfectly... KatAgent_009BLUGREY,My best guyfriend is a Scorp Stellium (4 planets), Virgo Riser.The love of his life cheated on him about...7 years ago. (Yes long time, I know). He's a very passionate, super stubborn, deeply clings onto emotions kind of guy. After his ex left for one of his acquaintance friends, he's been fukked up ever since. Not in the psycho, seeking revenge way. It's more like he keeps piling damage he's done to his own psyche over the last 7 years, holding onto bitterness. He doesnt trust anyone, specifically women. He gets lonely, but refuses to make an effort to date. I try to force him sometimes, and he'll just complain how he doesnt "know how," or that women in general dont like him anyways so why bother. Ironically he's a physically attractive guy & holds a very good job title. The last 6 years he hasnt gone on a single date, but instead has amassed material abundance. I recently got him to sign up for online dating, but that doesnt seem to fly...so far 1 date in 7yrs. Anyways I think it's good you keep him in your life for your daughter's sake. Although, because you hangout so much, you have got to lay down some ground rules which he would have to abide by. Simple things like, he's not allowed to ask you how your dating life is etc. You've got to stick to those rules yourself...no double standards. Or else, maybe you should both spend time with your daughter separately. blugrey.ScorpioSMRI am a Scorpio and am friends with all my ex's (men and women) except one. The only reason we are not friends now is because he was very abusive. My exes were mostly Scorpio, second Sagittarius and third Aries. With my ex partners our separations were in most cases gentle. We stay in touch sharing our experiences and feelings with each other- talking about it, supporting each other, and maintaining the friendship that was created before the relationship. One of my past partners who was a scorpio had a very hard time with "gentle separation" and even lashed out at me in vengeance. It took her a couple of years before being able to speak on the phone with me. I can still feel and hear the pain in her voice to this day and it's been several years, but we are friends. Being gentle and supportive while standing in your integrity helps a lot. I suppose the pain never really goes away for some, but there are gentler ways of separating than most others. NickiGlol, your bi...hehe, sweet...------------------put your foot down once, not stomp it over and overAgent_009BLUGREY,Interesting...I just checked my friend's chart again, and he has 3 planets in SAG. I guess these 2 guys are born around the same time. Now I'm curious, is your Ex really ambitious on the job front & holds a high title? My friend is a CGI-Technical Director. GrlyGirl20So... can they ever let go and just be friends? Our break up was messyMmmm I'd say maybe. Where is his Venus? This will give you a clue to if he can? If he has Venus in Scorp or in aspect to Pluto I'd say probably no. I have a Scorpio ex (with Aqua Moon) and we broke up but kept sleeping together but we both talked about the people we liked and how we were trying to be friends (keep in mind I have an 11th house Venus lol) so I truly thought we were JUST FRIENDS. Well when he found out I was went to a party with him, but talked to other people, including a friend of his and he flipped out and called me a **** , and ***** and deleted me off of facebook, and told me I wasn't attractive. That was in 2006. Keep in mind he WOULD NOT TALK TO ME until 2009, and would run when he saw me. Flash forward to 2009, and I'm dating an Aqua whom knows the Scorpio...and to get revenge the Scorpio tells the Aqua lies about how we slept together after knowing each other one night and etc. Obviously the Aqua believed him. So to answer your question probably not lol. Sorry.blugrey.CoffeeIs he Scorpio rising?If not, he is not a Scorpio. I'm guessing you mean a Scorpio Sun?If his Ascendant is not Scorpio, you are asking the wrong question about a certain sign.blugrey-
------------------put your foot down once, not stomp it over and over
I'd wait until you're either not concerned about his welfare so much, or your residual feelings are gone...
But, if you're really feeling the itch to move on... then, do what you want...
I thought you guys had just broken up.
Kat
My best guyfriend is a Scorp Stellium (4 planets), Virgo Riser.
The love of his life cheated on him about...7 years ago. (Yes long time, I know). He's a very passionate, super stubborn, deeply clings onto emotions kind of guy. After his ex left for one of his acquaintance friends, he's been fukked up ever since. Not in the psycho, seeking revenge way. It's more like he keeps piling damage he's done to his own psyche over the last 7 years, holding onto bitterness. He doesnt trust anyone, specifically women. He gets lonely, but refuses to make an effort to date. I try to force him sometimes, and he'll just complain how he doesnt "know how," or that women in general dont like him anyways so why bother. Ironically he's a physically attractive guy & holds a very good job title. The last 6 years he hasnt gone on a single date, but instead has amassed material abundance. I recently got him to sign up for online dating, but that doesnt seem to fly...so far 1 date in 7yrs.
Anyways I think it's good you keep him in your life for your daughter's sake. Although, because you hangout so much, you have got to lay down some ground rules which he would have to abide by. Simple things like, he's not allowed to ask you how your dating life is etc. You've got to stick to those rules yourself...no double standards. Or else, maybe you should both spend time with your daughter separately.
One of my past partners who was a scorpio had a very hard time with "gentle separation" and even lashed out at me in vengeance. It took her a couple of years before being able to speak on the phone with me. I can still feel and hear the pain in her voice to this day and it's been several years, but we are friends. Being gentle and supportive while standing in your integrity helps a lot. I suppose the pain never really goes away for some, but there are gentler ways of separating than most others.
Interesting...I just checked my friend's chart again, and he has 3 planets in SAG. I guess these 2 guys are born around the same time.
Now I'm curious, is your Ex really ambitious on the job front & holds a high title? My friend is a CGI-Technical Director.
Mmmm I'd say maybe. Where is his Venus? This will give you a clue to if he can? If he has Venus in Scorp or in aspect to Pluto I'd say probably no. I have a Scorpio ex (with Aqua Moon) and we broke up but kept sleeping together but we both talked about the people we liked and how we were trying to be friends (keep in mind I have an 11th house Venus lol) so I truly thought we were JUST FRIENDS. Well when he found out I was went to a party with him, but talked to other people, including a friend of his and he flipped out and called me a **** , and ***** and deleted me off of facebook, and told me I wasn't attractive. That was in 2006. Keep in mind he WOULD NOT TALK TO ME until 2009, and would run when he saw me. Flash forward to 2009, and I'm dating an Aqua whom knows the Scorpio...and to get revenge the Scorpio tells the Aqua lies about how we slept together after knowing each other one night and etc. Obviously the Aqua believed him. So to answer your question probably not lol. Sorry.
If not, he is not a Scorpio. I'm guessing you mean a Scorpio Sun?If his Ascendant is not Scorpio, you are asking the wrong question about a certain sign.
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